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Sceptics are everywhere. They might be your classmates or workmates, people you meet by accident (coincidence?) or people who contact you just to “confirm” your claims. Not every sceptic wants to debunk you at all costs, some just want to learn the truth, and some just are not aware of the proofs out there.

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And the proofs for the reality of psychic phenomena are really there, one just need to look around. Imagine you’re talking with a sceptical person about psychic experiences others had or you had. My first advice is to always speaks of objective, not subjective facts – if you don’t have to, don’t tell people you’re a psychic :). Anyway, in a discussion about the reality of psychic phenomena people in most cases start with general phenomena happening on the world – so they need scientific proofs.

Scientific way to deal with sceptic

Even if you’re talking about your own psychic abilities, then it’s good to start with explaining that psychic phenomena is the real thing. The most popular way of people trying to debunk all your psychic or paranormal claims is to say “there are no proofs, the scientific world says it’s impossible“. Fortunately for us, such sceptics are wrong and there’s a lot of scientific proofs for reality of psychic phenomena. You can easily defend yourself by reminding people and mentioning the following:

  • Stanford Research Institute research on psychical phenomena such. There were hundreds if not thousands of research on Remote Viewing, telepathy, precognition and psychometry, not mentioning psychokinesis there. Most of which were sponsored by the government by the way.
  • Rhine Research Centre does store a lot of documents about real psychic and paranormal experiences, and their archives are filled with date from Zener and Ganzfeld experiments (don’t forget to explain people how does these experiments looked like).
  • Rupert Sheldrake collected a lot of statistical and scientific data about telepathy (both between people and animals) and wrote few books on the subject.
  • Organizations like Society for Psychical Research from the United Kingdom have collected a lot of date in over 100 years of existence as well as performed lot of experiments in very scientific conditions, and they continue to work today.
  • Dean Radin done a hell of a job to collect scientific data about psychic phenomena from all around the world and presented the results of his work in his books.

It is a common way to debunk scientific claims by mentioning they’ve been performed by amateurs, but as you can see, SRI or RRC aren’t very amateur, are they? There’s also one more thing you have to remember when defending the reality of psychic phenomena. If you aren’t a genius with IQ 200, it might be difficult to memorize all the scientific proofs, therefore always remember to admit you don’t recall everything, but if the sceptic want, you can prepare for him a list of books (like Best Evidence) on the subject to read, or you can continue the discussion when you will bring your own books with you. If the sceptic will deny this, then just end the discussion as there’s no point of talking if you have to rely only on your memory.

In most cases the above works because the sceptic does not have any way to deny the scientific research.

Personal claims

When it comes down to your own personal psychic experiences (and it will come to this, I assure you) and someone says you might have misinterpreted your feelings and in reality, you weren’t experiencing anything paranormal there are also few ways to deal with that kind of talk. Here they are:

  • Remind your best experiences with psychic energies – do you remember the best experience you ever had with energy manipulation, something that you know was real? I had something like this, I was able to sense the energy only when I was intentionally drawing it into my energy system. This experience is one of the best that proved I’m not crazy :).
  • Remind your most successful psychic readings – if you have ever performed a psychic reading, then try to recall the most successful psychic reading you ever had, when the person you was doing a reading for confirmed all or most of the things you sensed using your abilities.
  • Remind your most successful psychometry sessions – you can also recall the best psychometry session you had, when you touched the object, talked about it and most of the things or everything you said turned to be correct.
  • Remind some literature – this one is personal. I studied a lot and experienced a lot, and finally created many techniques on my own, and after some time I read Debra Katz’s book on psychic devel0pment, where she discussed every single technique of clairvoyance and other forms of ESP I ever came up with. I have no idea how I did it, but everything she wrote I discovered on my own.

Emphasize the fact that for you, these experiences are enough to prove other uses of psychic abilities were real. The sceptic might still say you have no proofs that you haven’t faked all of the above (regarding personal claims) but – it’s not about the fact you might be lying, but about how you feel about these things. Don’t try to fight the person saying you faked stuff because if you feel OK with the personal proofs you recalled, the fact the sceptic doesn’t believe you does not matters at all.

Will that be all? I’m sure not, everyone might have personal way to deal with scepticism. Do you have any methods you would like to share?

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  1. I've come to a place where I'm not concerned with others believing me. I do what I need to in order to test myself regularly and keep my skills up and accept it as a talent. One of my friends is a great artist, one plays amazing basketball, I know things. We all have talents. They have to justify theirs through art awards and sports wins and I run into the same thing, having to "show" people the skill. I usually take the time to weigh a person's receptiveness before admitting I have this talent. Inevitably, they want you to read them, then they continue to take advantage by asking you to help them make life decisions. If I were a very tall person, I don't think they'd call me over to their house to get things off their top shelves and dust their shelves, but as a psychic they think they can just beg for more and more. People have a great deal of trouble accepting the ability because so many psychics are cold readers and found to be fakes. Even I am highly skeptical of other's talents. I don't blame them, but I don't use "psychic" as one of the top ways to describe myself. It comes much lower on the list of how I see myself because when you've had this your whole life, you figure it's like being able to see or hear, no big deal.


  2. This is something I've been dealing with a lot lately, primarily on the internet, on forums and the like. What I found interesting is the skeptics always roll out in the same exact pattern:

    1)There is no evidence for psychic abilities

    When I point them in the direction of peer reviewed papers, such as those by Rhine, Honorton, Bem, Watts, and Radin, they say

    2) It isn't replicable

    Then when I say that those experiments have been often replicated by skeptics such as Milton, Wiseman, and the like, they say

    3) It isn't real science, they're doing something funny with the data, or just forging the data

    Then when I tell them that these experiments are heavily criticized both internally by the parapsychology community, and by external skeptics, such as Ray Hyman, who make sure no funny business happens, and agree that there is something going on, they say

    4) It's an anomaly, but it's not psi

    Then when I try to explain to them that the odds of everything that has occurred in terms of human paranormal experience, the bulk of rigorous scientific research, and the personal experience of myself and many others, happening purely by coincidence is astronomical, they say

    5) Yup, that's what it is, just one massive coincidence.

    And that's only if you can get through all the name calling, degradation, straw man arguments, and comparisons to Santa Claus, the tooth fairy, and pink unicorns. Which is one of the most infuriating logical fallacy to deal with.

    So I've turned most of my focus to my own research in hopes, primarily, that I'll have my own data that I can whip out at any time and just be like, "Here. Proof. Eat it."

    Of course, there is that tiny astronomically small chance that I could be wrong, it is all one massive coincidence, and the universe is a brutalist, reductionist, materialist accident of quantum mechanics, but I'm really, really hoping that isn't the case. I really don't think I could live my life in a naturalistic, materialistic universe, knowing that I had zero free will, and nothing actually mattered.


  3. Additionally, this is a great link for anyone looking for ammunition against pseudoskepticism:

    http://www.debunkingskeptics.com/


  4. Hey, great website, thanks for sharing!


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